As I walked into NYC's Museum of Sex, somewhat hesitant boyfriend in tow, to learn how to have anal sex from an expert, I knew I'd be getting more intimate with the idea of anal than I ever had before. The event, an Anal Sex class, was hosted by Alicia Sinclair, Founder and CEO of b-Vibe , a company that makes premium, certified body-safe, healthy anal play products. The class was actually a product demonstration and training for Museum of Sex employees, who were going to start selling some of b-Vibe's new products, but some press like yours truly were invited to sit in and learn all about the literal ins-and-outs of butt stuff. Aside from all the handy hygiene tips you can clean the inside of your butt?!
'I prefer anal sex - but is it safe?'
Bend Over Boyfriend (BOB) - Male Anal Play Tips
Carol Queen , sexologist and sex activist, refers to anal play as the great equalizer. She points out that the bum, the anus, the rectum, even the sphincter muscles, can be sites of immense physical and psychological pleasure, and that this pleasure is open to all, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. When I first started working in sex stores, there were straight couples who would come in to buy dildos and harnesses to explore male anal penetration. But they were few and far between, and the guy would stand in the opposite corner, nervously watching to see what his partner was buying for him. These days there are books, educational videos, and even toy kits devoted to BOB, and while it can still be nerve wracking at first, guys are warming up to it. Being penetrated can be a profound emotional, psychological, and spiritual experience. It can also be a lot of breezy fun without deeper meaning.
Why Women Should Have Anal Sex
Get the goods on joining the 'Backdoor Betty' club. Hilda Hutcherson, author of Pleasure: A Women's Guide to Getting the Sex You Want, Need, and Deserve , loves sex toys, believes the world is much too porno-phobic, and thinks more women should give anal sex a try. All guys seem to want it , while all girls seem to hate it. But Dr.
Their experience was probably on a whim and unprepared. So, read on to learn how to enjoy anal sex. For many of us, our experiences with anal sex have left us a little traumatized. If anything, we assumed anal sex was the same as vaginal sex.