First, I want to clarify that my last blog was written for those women who struggle to be connected to their sexual being. Although there are many sexually healthy women out there who do enjoy intimacy and the connection it creates in their marriage. Understanding how most men relate to sex will allow you to be more aware of how you act or react towards his desire for you. For women, when we finally decide to initiate sex, and we get turned down, it can often put us in a very negative place. Asking for a need which many of us already struggle with asking for any needs and to be told no, often will initiate a battle going on in our heads.
Reasons your husband is unhappy
What to do when your husband doesn't satisfy you in bed
I read the article you shared about being turned down by your significant other for sex. I have always had a high sex drive. However, I was cautious with who I had sex with and masturbated a lot when in my teens through college. When I met my husband in college we had a great sex life and that continued through our early and mid 20's. Then he started wanting it less and I still wanted it the same amount.
Savage Love: My husband is bad in bed. Is it selfish to leave him?
Dear Carolyn: My husband and I have been married 10 years. We do not have kids; neither of us wanted them. Before we married, we did not have sex, but he was very interested in fooling around. Almost since the day we married, though, he has shown a lack of interest in sex.
Sex is not just about the man alone; women too have sexual needs. Failing to acknowledge this has led to many women feeling sexually starved and frustrated. What do you do as a wife when your husband doesn't last an erection, doesn't make to love to you to your satisfaction, thinks only about his sexual needs or doesn't make love to you as often?. What do you do as a wife when your husband doesn't last an erection, doesn't make to love to you to your satisfaction, thinks only about his sexual needs or doesn't make love to you as often? Don't cheat See Also: Bishop detains wife for spending too much time with the sick Do not break your marriage just because you are looking for an orgasm.